426 Connection closed , transfer aborted (transfer failed).(exception)

[CooT]

Well , my prob is when i download everythings fine, but when i have files fxp-ed to me they start out fast then drop to zero and then my buddy who fxps to me gets this msg"426 Connection closed , transfer aborted (transfer failed).(exception)" any ideas?

Also, when he fxps to any other site everything works fine except when he sends to me

we've tried passive and active, with no luck

[MxxCon]

not enough info.
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