Internal FTP Listings Hang

[exseven]

* FlashFXP 3.1.5 build 1054 Beta and others as well - properly registered
* OS WinXP
* Running firewall No
* Running Antivirus - YES - F-Secure
* Network 100mbit internal


So my issue is that if i goto a FTP site outside my network such as adobe.com all listings show up properly no problems what so ever, But when i try to get a listing from my home server or my xbox it hangs on listing only with flashfxp, all other ftp clients ive tried work ok. If after its waiting to "finish" listing i click on soft abort i get the directory listings up ok, until i move to another folder. The only time i can seem to get listings to show properly is it i goto a folder with a large amount of files.

heres my log...

FlashFXP v3.1.5 build 1054 [BETA RELEASE]
Support Forums at http://forum.flashfxp.com
 
WinSock 2.0 -- OpenSSL 0.9.7e 25 Oct 2004
[L] Connecting to 192.168.1.2 -> IP=192.168.1.2 PORT=21
[L] Connected to 192.168.1.2
Ident Request: 192.168.1.2  - UserID: X-7
Ident Request: 192.168.1.2  - UserID: X-7
[L] 220 ready.
[L] USER nick
[L] 331 Password required for nick.
[L] PASS (hidden)
[L] SYST
[L] 215 UNIX Type: L8
[L] FEAT
[L] 211- Extensions supported:
[L]  AUTH TLS
[L]  AUTH SSL
[L]  PBSZ
[L]  PROT
[L]  CPSV
[L]  SSCN
[L]  MDTM
[L]  SIZE
[L]  SYST
[L] 211 END
[L] PWD
[L] 257 "/" is current directory.
[L] TYPE A
[L] 200 Type set to A.
[L] PORT 192,168,1,3,5,12
[L] 200 PORT command successful.
[L] LIST -al
[L] 150 Opening ASCII mode data connection for directory listing.

(soft abort)
[L] ABOR
[L] 225 ABOR command successful.
[L] List Complete: 242 bytes in 6 minutes 43 seconds (0.0 KB/s)

and if i go into directory with a large amount of files (like my roms directory) i get

[L] LIST -al
[L] 150 Opening ASCII mode data connection for directory listing.
[L] List Complete: 344 KB in 0.70 seconds (490.4 KB/s)

and it works fine.

any suggestions or more info needed?

[Linkster]

Enable PASV mode.

[exseven]

same thing, i tried disabling it and never set it back.