Thank you for an exceptionally detailed reply.
The only thing that I can think of is that the akamia player looks for files that have 'flash' in the title/description as it seems to be designed for the playing of adobe flash files and that is why it slows down flash fxp temporarily?
Other than that, would it be possible for you as the software developer to contact the Akamai folks as they will take you much more seriously than they take me as an end user, as it is pretty clear that there is a conflict somewhere between the 2 pieces of software and I love my NFL.com videos and my flash fxp and don't want to have to chose between them!;
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(877) 4-AKATEC (US and Canada only) or
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