It works now but I havent opened the 4011 port.
I removed the trigger completely.
Added 2 firewall rules, one for in trafic and one for out trafic using the 35500-36500 portrange on both.
Portforwarded 4012 public to 4012 local. I am almost certain I have tried that before but with unsuccessfull result, but then again, I might be wrong.
Anyway, it works now and Im happy.
Thanks for your help.