First off i tested this problem using win xp and with out a router (no changes). Ive been using the send noop comand this whole time, im gonna tray messing with it turning it off and on my differant sites. Im wondering if i need to tell my friends that run these servers possibly turn somthing on so i do site to site transfers right. I imagine most are gonna be using g6 or serveruftp.
May be you can shine some more light in my problem in more detail.
thanks