wierd problem?please help

[mythos1453]

Well there was a server,that i had connected and download. one day i went there again but the server was down. Anyways i thought it was shut down by someone, but after 3months i connected again! by mistake. Well everything was normal except that the server said You need to have passive mode disable to connect. So i disable passive mode. It goes bla bla connection accepted password correct etc. until it goes to list. There it sais listing directory and i wait there for like 5min until it sais data socked connection lost or Socks: request rejected or failed. I tell this to my friends and 3 of 4 connected normally PLEASE Help SOMebody...

I'm running FlashFXP v3 (build 1010 RC) unregistered
My OS is WinXp
I have zone alarm and panda security firewall on my pc

[MxxCon]

do you have any hardware routers or firewalls?
is your ZoneAlarm configured to give FlashFXP server rights?
post status log when that error happen

[mythos1453]

WinSock 2.0 -- OpenSSL 0.9.7d 17 Mar 2004
[R] Connecting to xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx -> IP=xxx.xxx.x.xxx PORT=21099
[R] Connected to xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx
[R] 220 .
[R] USER classical
[R] 331 Password required for classical.
[R] PASS (hidden)
[R] 230-================================================== ======
[R] 230- Hello, user classical from xx.xxx.xxx.xxx !
[R] 230- Local time is Fri Jul 16 12:46:54 2004.
[R] 230- The following user/password combinations are valid
[R] 230- for this site:
[R] 230- oth/net - look only;
[R] 230- classical/music - download;
[R] 230- upload/classical - upload.
[R] 230- NOTE! PASV mode in FTP client's settings must be
[R] 230- turned OFF.
[R] 230- All questions/requests can be sent to the dedicated
[R] 230- nntp server: news://clms.da.ru .
[R] 230-================================================== ======
[R] 230 User classical logged in.
[R] SYST
[R] 215 UNIX Type: L8
[R] FEAT
[R] 500 FEAT not understood.
[R] REST 100
[R] 350 Restarting at 100. Send STORE or RETRIEVE to initiate transfer.
[R] REST 0
[R] 350 Restarting at 0. Send STORE or RETRIEVE to initiate transfer.
[R] CWD /
[R] 250 CWD command successful.
[R] PWD
[R] 257 "/" is current directory.
[R] TYPE A
[R] 200 Type set to A.
[R] PORT xxx,xxx,x,x,xx,xx
[R] 200 PORT command successful.
[R] LIST -al
[R] Connection lost: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx




Well i think that i have given server permission but that's not the problem i shut down firewalls before i connect to it and nothing happens(different)