When ever I try to connect my xbox with Flash FXP it doesn't work. I go to quick connect, then I type in my xbox IP address where it says server or url. I type in xbox as user name and xbox as password like it should be.  After all that said and done it gives me this.
[R] Connecting to 192.168.123.101 -> IP=192.168.123.101 PORT=21 
[R] Connection failed (10061: Connection refused) 
[R] Delaying for 120 seconds before reconnect attempt #1 
How do I fix this problem so it connects like it should?