The site is stealthed, and if I probe to this extent all the alarms will go off. I don't want to be peceived as trying to hack a site. I like this person, and don't want to bust the door down, I just need to know if FTP is running on the server in a very subtle way, without port scanning.
AATOOLS offers a great suite of functions. I never used it before, so thanks for the info!