let me know if u find out anything intresting.. i never had the problem w/ OUT a router but now since hte problem is intermitent , on two diffrent machines w/ 2 diffrent os's (both using the router.. ima try to elimate the router for a week and see if it is fine ..
the 'send noop' durring xfers appeared to work for a day
not sure wtf is going on but starting to doubt the router closing idle ports theory since i send noops and that doesnt' help, and since its intermitent, and sometimes it does it on 2 flashfxp's when i have 6 open.. and the rest would be unaffected
**edited**
another thing i thought of is .. sometimes durring a xfer (durring one of the times i am havin this queue problem).. lets say i xfer a file..
Transferred: something.part29.rar 14.31 MB in 19.81 (739.33 KBps)
and its soposed to do PASV (which i assume is sent from me/the client)
it will be idle for 22+ seconds before my client sends the server, flashfxp sites there.. queue waiting.. both servers on the bottom say idle 22seconds and counts.. eventually it will go again.. usually after 20-30 seconds of being idle (once again it doesn't happen all the time)..